Quantitative infarct estimation is crucial for diagnosis, treatment and prognosis in acute ischemic stroke (AIS) patients. As the early changes of ischemic tissue are subtle and easily confounded by normal brain tissue, it remains a very challenging task. However, existing methods often ignore or confuse the contribution of different types of anatomical asymmetry caused by intrinsic and pathological changes to segmentation. Further, inefficient domain knowledge utilization leads to mis-segmentation for AIS infarcts. Inspired by this idea, we propose a pathological asymmetry-guided progressive learning (PAPL) method for AIS infarct segmentation. PAPL mimics the step-by-step learning patterns observed in humans, including three progressive stages: knowledge preparation stage, formal learning stage, and examination improvement stage. First, knowledge preparation stage accumulates the preparatory domain knowledge of the infarct segmentation task, helping to learn domain-specific knowledge representations to enhance the discriminative ability for pathological asymmetries by constructed contrastive learning task. Then, formal learning stage efficiently performs end-to-end training guided by learned knowledge representations, in which the designed feature compensation module (FCM) can leverage the anatomy similarity between adjacent slices from the volumetric medical image to help aggregate rich anatomical context information. Finally, examination improvement stage encourages improving the infarct prediction from the previous stage, where the proposed perception refinement strategy (RPRS) further exploits the bilateral difference comparison to correct the mis-segmentation infarct regions by adaptively regional shrink and expansion. Extensive experiments on public and in-house NCCT datasets demonstrated the superiority of the proposed PAPL, which is promising to help better stroke evaluation and treatment.